7 posts tagged “reading”
I fell off the wagon in writing about the books I'm reading, but I have continued to read and want to keep track in some form. My original goal was to read a lot more books this year and that hasn't really happened. I'm going to work on that. That being said, here is my list so far:
Non-Fiction by month:
- January: The Caged Virgin: An Emancipation Proclamation for Women and Islam by Ayaan Hirsi Ali
- February: Funny in Farsi by Firoozeh Dumas
- March: The Four Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss
- April: The Legend of Pope Joan by Peter Sanford
- May: In Defense of Food by Michael Pollan
- June: Naturally Thin by Bethenny Frankel
- July: Food Politics by Marion Nestle
- August: Three Cups of Tea by G. Mortensen and D. Relin
- September: Natural Alternatives to Nexium, Maalox, Tagamet, Prilosec & Other Acid Blockers by Martie Whittekin
- October:
Books read:
- You'll Never Nanny in this Town Again by Suzanne Hansen
- The Caged Virgin: An Emancipation Proclamation for Women and Islam by Ayaan Hirsi Ali
- Perfect Match by Jodi Picoult
- Funny in Farsi by Firoozeh Dumas
- Babycakes by Armistead Maupin
- Early from the Dance by David Payne
- One for the Money by Janet Evanovich
- The Four Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss
- Two for the Dough by Janet Evanovich
- Apparition Alley by Katherine V. Forrest
- The Legend of Pope Joan by Peter Sanford
- Through the Grinder by Cleo Coyle
- How the Garcia Girls Lost Their Accents by Julia Alvarez
- In Defense of Food by Michael Pollan
- The Ghost at the Table by Suzanne Berne
- Significant Others by Armistead Maupin
- Three to Get Deadly by Janet Evanovich
- Naturally Thin by Bethenny Frankel
- Sure of You by Armistead Maupin
- Good Omens by Terry Pratchett and Neil Gaiman
- Four to Score by Janet Evanovich
- Food Politics by Marion Nestle
- The Sleeping Bones by Katherine V. Forrest
- Three Cups of Tea by G. Mortensen and D. Relin
- The House at Riverton by Kate Morton
- Natural Alternatives to Nexium, Maalox, Tagamet, Prilosec & Other Acid Blockers by Martie Whittekin
- The Temple Dancer by John Speed
Legend has it that centuries ago (Sanford pinpoints it around the 9th century), a woman achieved the unachievable by disguising herself as a man and winning over clerics and Catholic thinkers. She became Pope John VIII. Her secret was only revealed once she gave birth to a child on a procession in a narrow steep alley in Rome.
Sanford takes us from his accidental discovery of the legend during a lazy vacation overlooking Joan's alley, the "Vicus Papissa", through a fascinating investigation in various Church libraries, cities across Europe and various historic sites.
He explores the historical, philosophical and even psychological aspects of Pope Joan, thoughtfully turning each angle to the light, making her both credible historically and relevant to modern readers. I must say that his research is extensive which at times feels like a laundry list of source snippets, but Sanford weaves these in with his own personal journey, creating a tale that is both educational and amusing. This journey is, in itself, as interesting as the potential truth he searches for along the way.
Beyond the surface of a quarter-to-mid-life crisis (is there a third-life crisis?) coming-to-terms tale, there is enough in this novel to warrant a revisiting, or at the very least, a good analysis. Spencer uses Avery's attention to detail to highlight sounds and colors and tensions that surely have more significance than being simply repetitive and ambient. He tends to overdescribe his scenes and occasionally Avery narrates us for pages on small details or seemingly irrelevant memories. In fact, in one conversation with another man on the tour, Spencer gives a flash of awareness as he cuts his own rambling short by briefly summarizing the drone of Avery's companion. Spencer's novel is thoughtful, and his choices meaningful. Though it has its flaws, the story pulls you through and though a bit monotonous (to force his reader to relate to Avery's general sense of ennui?), in the end, the heavy-handed philosophy about life is a positive development, leaving an overall enjoyable reading experience and some good food-for-thought about relationships, commodities, morals, and, as trite as it may be, the meaning of an individual life in the big world.
Many judgments are made about the sex tour's participants - mainly the men and women, and rarely the owners, operators or even the shadowy "contacts" which turn out to be little more than pimps with higher paid prostitutes than the American hookers that are left behind by the men on the Fleming tour. Spencer appears to carefully leave any final decisions up to the reader, even as his protagonist seems to come to his own conclusion. This ambiguity gives the reader a wonderful experience of the equivocation, even if one's own opinions are pre-determined, that dances through both Avery and many of his compadres. Some men are sure of their right to purchase attention, affection and physical interaction. Some men feel the price they have paid gives them a right to something better than even they are being given. The women seem to be of a more similar mind - there is a resounding notion across the board that each woman is a salesperson, that sex and feigned affection is a business, even if some women are more carefree about the business than others.
It is this dichotomy, however - female nonchalance versus male ambivalence - that is either (again, the ambiguity) thought provoking, or a bit juvenile. Only one female character, one whom I dare not mention lest I spoil the plot, expresses any truly apposite stance on the entire tour. I want to believe that Spencer wanted to be thought provoking. I'm not sure that it is fully carried off, but perhaps a shadow of intent is there. Everything wraps up too neatly at the end with a nod towards the bigger picture for it to really achieve a serious level. With that dash, then, of juvenility, Spencer allies himself with his protagonist, as a man with a lot to think about, still a bit to learn, and a keen sense of observation to pull him through to his ultimate destination.
The parallels in each sister's struggle are found naturally and do not feel forced. The details about the time and places are engaging without being overwhelming. De Pontes Peebles draws the stories along, bubbling for a crescendo that, despite the well-crafted story lines, never quite comes along. There is much drama and action, but the book does not seem to reach a traditional climax. The ending is satisfying and does give the reader some insight into the future of the characters, but it happens all of a sudden, as if the author realized that the book was well over 600 pages and just couldn't go on for another 600. All this considered, this book is an enjoyable read with much to reveal about a fascinating point in history.
Though the children are being taught to abstain, and Ruth laments finding herself in the position of an abstinence teacther, the real abstinence in question is being practiced by Ruth and Tim. Ruth, as we are reminded ad nauseam, is a forty-plus divorcee who hasn't had sex in two years. Tim is a recovering addict who found his way out of a serious drug and alcohol addiction through Jesus. These are the defining aspects of these characters, driving all of their decisions and interactions, and it is their abstinence, or the examination of their life in abstention, that teaches Ruth and Tim their most important lessons.
The Abstinence Teacher initially sets up a potential conflict between Ruth's sex education class and her belief system against the born-again church values and Tim's imposition of his religion on the youth soccer team he coaches (Ruth's daughter, Maggie, is one of his best players). This, however, is shadow play, yet again. The soccer team and the religious conflict bring these two characters together and loosely carry the story along, but there is no real conflict in this novel. Instead, Perrotta presents an interesting and heartfelt character study, a study of abstinence in a multitude of meanings, and through that examination, we also find indulgence to be as complex.
The lack of a true driving conflict gives this novel the feeling of a meandering journey through the lives of two suburban parents, each sorting through a different set of baggage. Once a reader stops looking for a more classic beefed up plot, The Abstinence Teacher is a pleasant, thought provoking read which keeps you largely in suspense as to its predictable foregone conclusion. This novel is not brilliant, but only because it is not heavy handed and the shadows are light and approachable. It is engaging and accessible, and though Ruth and Tim have very specific challenges to face and process, they too are light and approachable, which makes sharing their journey worthwhile.
I've come up with a list (see the sidebar on the left - your left) of things that I'd like to accomplish for myself. Some are rather lofty and general like live more passionately and some are pretty concrete like visiting all 50 states. It's a bit overwhelming to think that there are 19 things that I should work on at any given time, but they are all good positive things and I'm certainly allowing myself to take baby steps.
The easiest to focus on right now include cooking and reading. I'm tackling both by looking through Think Like a Chef by Tom Colicchio. I'm just in the first chapter on roasting and I'm thinking of roasting a chicken one of these nights, just to try out his recipe. I've tried a few and they've been tasty, but getting the perfect roast chicken is one of those feats that a food/cooking-lover is supposed to master, right? I'm also reading My Life in France by Julia Child and Alex Prud'Homme, and Julia's enthusiasm for mastering the perfect roast chicken is certainly contagious. The Barefoot Contessa also has one that uses something like 20 cloves of garlic, which I'll have to try someday, but for now, I'm going to try and master roasting Tom Colicchio's way.